If you have been following TILB, then you know that Freeze accused his wife Ope of being a domestic violent woman during the time of their relationship, an accusation Ope is not having at all
Well, reporter Stella Dimoko reached out for an exclusive interview from the Cool FM personality, and let me just tell you before hand that he spilled EVERYTHING. I honestly think he even said way more than was necessary.
Read the interview below...
Why have you repeatedly called out your estranged wife Ope via your social media handles?Why Freeze?why?why are you so angry?bitter?Why did you go online to call her an adulteress?Do you have proof of your accusations and if yes can you tell me a little about this proof?
I am not perfect, not even near, but I will not take blame for a crime I
didn't commit and won't allow my name to be destroyed by this woman.
Ope was raised by a single mother who had seven children from three
different fathers. Everyone discouraged the relationship pointing out
her mother's situation and warning me that this might lead to a
character flaw in Ope but what did I know?
I was in love. By the time I understood the enormity of the damage done
to her by her upbringing, it was already too late and she was pregnant
with our first child. I decided to get married to Ope turning a deaf ear
to numerous warnings of the consequences of such an action.
From the first year of marriage I started seeing her true character.
She talked without any respect whatsoever and would fight me and hurl
curses like a market woman, while saying to me "it is better I curse you
and hit you than for GOD to strike you!" My parents have been married
for 40years and I believe that divorce should never be an option. So I
endured the violence.
Adultery is one of the most difficult things to prove but if a married
woman keeps late nights, has unwholesome friends, comes home tipsy
regularly and she makes calls to strange men at ungodly hours within her
husbands home eyebrows will definitely be raised. There was this one
time I went to the UK for work. I sent my assistant with a cheque to my
house at midnight and she wasn't home,she had dropped the kids with my
sister and disappeared into the night!
What about the time she saved a mans number under her female friends
name sometime in 2007 and we had a huge fight about it, leading me to
almost end the marriage at that time. It has never been my intention to
call her out on social media and if you remember clearly I avoided
making any comment initially since it's an embarrassing situation for
both of us and the children already, however she is hellbent on
destroying everything I stand for just to make herself look good. This
has left me with no other option than to speak the truth!
I saw the pictures you released online yesterday of your bloodied face,what happened?who beat you up blue black and why?
Ope beat me up black and blue. I have received beatings from someone who
was supposed to be my better half and a weaker vessel for little or no
provocation. I was once attacked physically while on the phone with one
of my biggest clients and the client listened through the attack that
left me badly injured.
Several of my friend have witnessed her attacks. She is a very jealous
and possessive person and believes the best way to stop a man from
cheating is to embarrass him before any potential threat.
She is also very insecure as a result of her upbringing and is suspicious of everyone and everything.
We read a lot from comment sections where stories of both of you are
posted but i am asking you directly now,why did your marriage crash and
why couldn't you as a man save it?
My marriage crashed like 6 or 7 years ago. In her bid to have absolute
control Ope severed ties with my family. She created such a hostile
environment that my family avoided visiting as much as possible. In
order for me to have a happy home I had to do as she pleased or else all
hell would be let loose. I wasn't the perfect husband myself making a
few mistakes here and there but I always believed we could work on our
issues if we stuck together.
The straw that finally broke the camels back for me was when she lashed
out at my mother, attempting to slap her in the presence of my father
and I because my mother dared question her coming home at 11.30pm
leaving the children without dinner.
To me that was the highest form of insult a man could ever take and I
felt I had failed my family if that was the best daughter-in-law I could
provide for them. I still stayed on in the marriage for the sake of the
kids but my heart and soul had departed.
Even after she packed out of our matrimonial home I tried to send my
sister after her to plead with her just for the sake of the children but
she refused. Like 6months before she packed out she changed jobs to her
present company Seadrill limited without even informing me. I found out
because her ID changed and up until today I don't know where that
company is.
It is alleged that you have a new family...a baby mama who is still
married with four other children who happens to have contributed to your
marriage crash....If it is not too much to ask can you please explain
this?And please while you are at it,tell me when you saw your kids last.
Yes I am in a relationship but let me squash the rumor. she is not an
older woman, she is a lot younger than I am and she does not have four
children. I didn't start dating her until three or four months after Ope
deserted our matrimonial home leaving me in a severe state of
depression. She has been wonderful to me, gave me a shoulder to cry on
and picked me up from the mess I was in.
My family adore her and her family is really cool with me and I am
praying to GOD that she will be my last bus stop. Ope has prevented me
from seeing my kids for over a year now. I remember picking my son up
from school last year and she drove to my house with thugs in her car,
barricaded my gate and started screaming to attract the neighbours that I
wanted to kidnap her son.
I am sure that at one point you must have loved your wife dearly.I
don't know how you feel about her right now and i wont ask but i need to
know if you are looking for closure and if you need counselling?
Yes, I loved her but that was a very long time ago. Her destructive
spirit killed the love a long time ago. It grew to anger, hatred,
bitterness and my current state of indifference towards her. She had a
friend that was kicked out of her marriage because she was caught with
juju.
This same friend made sure that she ended OPE'S marriage and I am
leaving that friend to GOD! I suffered so much in the hands of this
woman I was so depressed that I was almost suicidal. A friend of mine
advised me to go into sports to maintain my sanity but I absolutely
detest sports.
The only sport I can tolerate is Formula1. I went to watch a race and
Oris watches were advertised so I bought one. I had always loved watches
but on a much smaller scale. I started with brands like Oris, Tissot,
Rado and Raymond Weil then I graduated to the bigger dogs. I used to
stay up all night researching on wristwatches and searching for the best
service centre etc What started as a hobby to battle my depression has
fast become my greatest passion!
I am over this relationship with Ope, I wish her all the best in life as
I have long moved on. I have an amazing woman in my life and a couple
of weeks ago we were blessed with an adorable son!
I use this as a medium to beg her to allow me access to our children
something she has totally denied me for over one year! She should be
advised to be careful with the kind of accusations she makes because
they could ultimately be damaging to the reputation of her children's
father. I never draw first blood, I have always reacted to what she did
never the other way round.
This is my closure,i don't need any counselling.
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